LOVE is the essence of life."Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies."

LOVE IS THE HISTORY,
BUT WHEN DONE WITH FUN...
IT BECOMES A GREAT MYSTERY.
LOVE IS NOT A BURDEN,
& NOT A MERE RESPONSIBILITY!!!!
LOVE IS A FRUITFUL GARDEN,
WHICH SHOULD ALWAYS HAVE A SOIL OF FERTILITY.
LOVE IS A LIKE A MAGIC,
BUT IT SHOULD BE BIT STRATEGIC.
LOVE IS THE WAY TO LIVE YOUR DREAM!!
ITS PATH IS BIT DIFFICULT...
BUT IS SMOOTH AS AN ICE CREAM.
         "LOVE IS LIFE,
              LIVE IN LOVE..
                 ENJOY ITS BEAUTY,
                           NEVER BLUFF YOUR TRUE LOVE"
1.The relation to prior to every love relation should be FRIENDSHIP.

2.Friends have better understanding to further continue the new relationship after friendship.

3.All the creatures of world are hungry of love.

4.Love has positive energy which produces positive vibrations all over.


5.Love is the shadow of god,where there is love each and every moment is full of life.


LOVE is the game of few fractions of seconds but true love is the thrilling game of "infinite uncountable" seconds which has to be carried out carefully the entire life.



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A beautiful relation starts from friendship. When two people see each other and doesn’t interact with each other, that may be termed as infactuation where the people start liking each other or may be it may be from either side. This may be the initial stage but not much beautiful, but then if you comes more forward and start talking with one another, there starts developing a bond and this is a good feeling and then we start talking, sharing our daily life, good and bad which takes place in our life .That one person to whom we never known before a week becomes some one important with whom we start sharing our life. If he or she doesn’t talk to you even a single day, some emptiness is felt in your life which is almost breath taking from your body. This becomes something weird but is the reality of life.

“Love is in the air”

We all will agree with this fact that the only thing that is constant in the life are “CHANGES”. In the past also the world was changing, but the development and technologies had brought a terrific change in the mentalities and living of the people. Previously the people use to live simple life with their family and friends. There were no electrical appliances, neither  telephones  nor  cell phones, not many vehicles and no internet. As the time passed by, some things we have invented and some we have adopted from the western culture.

In the undergoing scenario, the craze of following the western culture is increasing day by day. The old generations are living their life in their way following the past and the new generation  have made their life entirely different. In the olden days, I am not going very far but yet talking about 30-40 years back, the children in their student life doesn’t use to have motorbikes, cellphones or moreover tabs with them. Most of the people at that time were not so rich to afford all these facilities or gadgets or rather we can see in the other way also that we were not much technologically rich in the past era.

Now a days we are having  all sorts of gadgets  and the parents at the early age provide the gadgets and vehicles to the kids. I am not saying that updating your kids is a wrong move, but before that you should tell them everything about the use and misuse, difficulties faced by that and the ways to come out if any problem comes. The parents in the earlier times never try to shared anything with their children some times because of shame and sometimes by saying that at this small age there is no need to tell them all the things. But they have to know that now the time has been changed drastically. Its high time to be the friends of their children from the early age rather to treat them as a parent. Don’t be strict with them, try to start living in their scenario, try to know them, their likes, dislikes, friends , enemies, threats, fears, goals, achievements and last but not the least the main one is their problems. 
There is not any problem if you are not with your children in their good times, but always be with them in their bad tenure. After all they are small, nevertheless they may show that they have become grown up and cool now, let them think, it’s their time to fly. But you all should be intelligent enough to deal with the coolness and smartness of your kids. Sometimes it happens that the children comes in big problems because of their over smartness, but try to resolve the problems by sitting and talking on them.
 Never try to be violent and never try to hit your kid on any issue, it will take you away from them. They will start hating you and will start hiding their matters from you. They will start sharing their talks with an outsider that will be really dangerous and risky for them and for the family too.
Try to take out each and every word out from your child’s heart. From their childhood itself teach them one thing that “we are family and no relation is big and real than our bonding, always share each and everything with the family members.” Sometimes your kids are very jumbled and are very puzzled and are trapped inside their thoughts only, many problems surrounds them and a phase comes in everyones life when he feels alone and there is no near and dear one to share his life. Have faith on your children and make your position so strong in their heart that no one can overcome your presence. Trust your kids and try to resolve their problems without disputes. Also, you should also share your family problems with your children, keep the problems in front of them, ask for the solution, advices and ask them what they have done in place of you in that particular situation. This will not only bring your child close to you, but also they will feel their importance in the family and bonding will be more strong. Take the advice from everyone in the family whatever be the last decision it will be yours, treat every individual equally ,maintain the feeling of  respect amongst all.

If your child wants you to be updated and a bit modern and presentable so what’s  bad in that. Don’t bring your ego in between that why should I change my beliefs and principles. Its good to change with the time .Try to be involve with them on the social networking sites and internet. In that way you will be updated also and you will be well acknowledged with what your children are doing on the internet. Best way to protect your children is be with them as their shelter and shadow, where shelter means their advisor and shadow means their friend.
 Don’t interfere in their personal lives, don’t check their messages, diaries and mails. Children at the teenagers age want some privacies and would not like the interference of anyone .Let them enjoy their life with their friends, either male or female. Don’t say no to your children for just a matter of a boy as a friend or girl as a friend. World has changed now, say them to be secure and strict with boys, but don’t restrict them everytime.
Make such a relation with your kids that they also listen to you and you too listen to them, they trust on you and you trust on them. You Change some what according to them, they will also realize and do whatever you say. Don’t show yourself superior to them, respect each others feelings. Make such a beautiful and tension free environment of your house that people say that what a wonderful family you have.
Don’t give any chance to anyone to say a single word against you and your family. At the end whatever be the bitter truth of your family you have to deal with it ,never try to involve others be it your child’s marks problem or love marriage problem. We all are literates and can possibly take out the solution of each and every problem.
Follow only one funda of life to make it easy:
“Never give tensions, never take tensions,
  Live the life in such a manner that people see you and think that what an amazing creature you are.”

Nevertheless one thing that makes your life easy is “SMILE”.

Don’t forget that we have came empty handed on this earth, and will leave the earth same, then why to waste the life by destroying it. Understand one thing that its obvious to have an age gap in every generation but it is a serious need of today to abridge this gap.
 It’s my hearty appeal to all the readers that the security of future generation is in your hands, “don’t let them go in vain because gone people’s never come again.”

Internet : A blessing and a curse

In the historic times, “the world was simple and ready to mingle”.
No one was racing, not much of a competition, slow development, low population, less needs, less demands, less corruption, less terrorism, less insecurity, more safety, happy and long life. The people were happy with the small earning, with their regular work and with their family. I think you will all agree with my thoughts.

Life was changing at that time also but the changes were slow and steady. Taking as an example a child, the kids used to play outdoor games like cricket, football, badminton,  some sort of running and chasing games and many more and indoor games like chess,  table-tennis and so on. They used to enjoy all those games because at that time they didn’t have any means of leisure apart from such games. Though some video games were there but they were also restricted with the available games.
Then the world started evolving, people developed various scientific technologies. As it is very well said that: “If science has blessed you with utilities for your ease, then these utilities and facilities may turn to poison some day or other if misused”. The jewels given by science to us are all the machines like refrigerators, washing machines, vehicles, phones, mobiles  and the biggest invention is the computer. The revolutionary role was played by the INTERNET. On  another note, these facilities can groom your life, if you use them properly for the positive  side, they can entertain you and help achieving your goal.

Do you all ever think about the internet? Is it a magical boon or a black moon?
In today’s era, internet has taken the place of each and everything which I discussed in the above lines like games, friends, family and social life. The child of 2-3 years now a days start playing with mobiles and video handsets, the child in his early age is provided cell phones and internet to cherish their future by gathering the information from the entire world and for being connected with one another. Now the question arises that are these facilities being used for the improvement of the future or being misused?

We can’t stop our children from using internet but can only help them separate right from wrong, that in which direction they have to move forward by telling them about the benefits and flaws of both the good and bad paths respectively.

The children in the very small age of 7-8 years are involved in the social networking sites. To be social is not a wrong move, but to include unknown in your list is the wrong move. They should be informed about the bitter realities of the world before exposing them to the world.
“Children are wet mud, whatever shape you want you can give to them, but after they have taken a shape, again reshaping them will damage the statue. “In the current scenario internet is serving to you with all good and bad side of the world, by providing you free clicks and free downloading. The net is serving you with adult games, porn films and adult sites with no age restrictions.

Now what the parents can do if all the worst dishes are served in their child plate? They might be busy in their work and it may happen that their child may get involved in all these things and may be destroyed completely. The parents can do only one thing that they should openly talk to their children like a friend and tell them all the things. They should not hide anything from their children because they have to understand that if they will not tell anything to their child, they will try to find their answer from any other source and that may be more harmful to them. Be open and friendly with your child. Try to understand them and present yourself in such a way that they understand you.

Internet has provided uncountable advantages, but the need is to keep your eyes open and then take the advantage. In the upcoming days internet is being used as the source of employment also. There are many sites and forums by which we can earn money online. There are SMS and mail sending jobs also. But as I said that if you are given facilities they can be turned into a  curse also, and such a case again came in lime light in Jabalpur, Madhya Pradesh, India.

The recent case of 29june, 2013 which included the case of fraud and cheat. A chit-fund company named Radiance Online Service  Private Limited has asked for some investment from the users by promising of multiplying the amount every month. Some problem came in the site and the whole work came to an end. No payment made, few cheques were bounced and the users filed a complaint against the owner of the company. Millions of rupees are involved in the scandal. Users are asking for the refund. Currently the owner is in judicial custody.

So, with this case we can reach to the end result that the internet is misused. Now in this case social media is greatly involved. Media is just elaborating the news by adding salt and pepper to the facts of the case. The role of media is rather negative in the current scenario. They are just moving to gather the plentiful information without concerning about people’s lives. Media has made privacy public. Instead of helping the public, they make them guilty to get any news out of them. By quoting an example, the selfish role of media can be well presented. The disaster, the cloud burst which took place in Uttarakhand, India, which took the life of almost 2lakh people and destroyed everything over there, the media people from every channel went over there to get the footage, coverage with the helicopters or private vans but the media authority  never thought of financially helping the people over there or just seeking their help to them. If they tried, they would have saved many lives by taking few of them in their vehicles but no efforts were made.

This is the picture of the world towards what we are heading to. The picture is really endangering us but have to be dealt with the existing picture to make it beautiful and productive.